Dear Seth, I just read your new blogpost “Fear of shipping”. I would love to share my thoughts on what you write, because I think I have something valuable to add. You write: Every time you raise your hand, send an email, launch a product or make a suggestion, you’re exposing yourself to criticism. Not [...]
The meaning of communication lies in the response
The meaning of any communication is the response it elicits, regardless of the communicator’s intent. This is the third article in the series “Beliefs of successful people”. If you have not read the first two entries yet, I invite you to do so first. You can find them here: Divorce Support Groups: Tips for Success [...]
The map is not the territory
“To be successful in your divorce support groups, you need to study successful people” Richard Bandler and John Grinder did research, starting in the seventies, to discover what exactly it is that successful people think, do and believe. You don’t have to agree with them to use them. In these series of blogposts, I will [...]
Do you match or do you mismatch?
As you know, what really gets me going, is the challenge of reducing the stress of divorce on all family members. More and more, I realize, that divorce is not a one-time event, but rather something which influences people for the rest of their lives, often on a daily basis. Scary… One of the elements [...]
Do you want to be happy or do you want to be right?
Now years ago, I heard an interview with an relationship coach (in the interview series by Christian Carter… worth it!). She asked that question: “Do you want to be happy or do you want to be right?” I do still remember what a revelation it was for me. I simply had never thought about it [...]
